If someone in Time, demonstrate themselfs offensive, maybe is because they care about something, while expecting, what they are able to Imagine as possible, to be what can be, the best we imagine that anyone can be. Is amazing how common this behavior is. We can see it in Legal or "illegal" manifestations (which is always legal to, since is only an expression that manifest something, like anyone will do by asking something to eat on the shop). "Excuse me, I want to red apple there." The person manifest what he/she wants. That is legal ... always Legal !!!!
Anyway, since we always manifest our self's to other self's, and to talk and express what we want to express by talking, being offensive is part of communications and is part of the experience of comparing ourself's to the information to validate it or not, while we accept it or deny it. That is the Flow of what we are in reality. So...
The behavior is to be offensive to someone. Are You Stupid? This cannot be an offense, since is a Question. You are a piece of Shit. This can be offensive, but since we can use the brain, we can start doing that common verification about what was expressed. Shit is not a living being, while I am. The offensive declaration is funny, since is not what I am. Thinking is good, when you are able to think. You are the worst son I had. Okay, this can be offensive, while at least I can be the worst on something. See it always in the positive way of life. It is originality, you don't need to become sad with it.
But, parents while educating us, can become agressive or even violent. This is like all those acts of love between Israel, Iran, Palestine and other friends that love to demonstrate themselfs agressive, offensive and violent, to demonstrate their love, while the comparation is stupid, because they are not from the same famility... or maybe they are... well, in fact, they are. They have the same origin, similar beliefs, using the same belief system (only one god), while forgetting how God would use it's simplicity. Nothing fancy.. not Math skills needed... any child can understand.
While sacred books talk about what humans did in the name of God no book describe what is God or which style God Like. There are book that try to describe God, but they don't belong to some religious group. The Religious groups, love Human Stories, which make sense, since the main target of any book is someone, while not everyone, think. If God create us, He already Bless us. He already Know what is your End and He already know what are your thoughts, while he gave you Free Will of Choice. That is God, Goverments and others are not Gods and therefor they don't always give those choices to all others. You know, the Right to Deny to Participate for example. It is about Freedom of Choice. I don't wish to participate on killing other people in the name of Any group or country or whatever the name is, not even in the name of God.
You know, how many can kill inocent people in the name of God? Or in the name of "their country"? Or in the name of "Nothing"? For fun only? How many? For Money? :)
Well, we already know what money can do. What people can do for money. Is like my application. I didn't find people who come to me and say: just because You had this idea in your head, described in that page, we are here to spend our time with you, to create the application you wish to see in reality for Free, and without asking you, to spend several years to learn it alone". No. That doesn't happen and naturally, money create that possibility. Then you pay, and things start being created.
Parents, Colegues, Friends, Lovers, unknown people and even non-rational-animals, can become offensive and if they do: is all about what they are expecting, while if they spend time to tell us, is because they Care! We tend to demonstrate how we care, or by preparing someone to what reality is, or by complaining against them, by expecting what they could be.
It is just another Dream!